Mistakes Women Make When He Says "It's Over"

Learn How to Win Your Husband's Heart Back...Even If He is Angry, Resentful, and Wants Nothing To Do With You Right Now

"A breakthrough came as I watched Larry's online video to wives. Numerous times I threw my arms up in the air and yelled, "YES!!! THANK YOU!!!" because everything he was saying resonated with me! His recognition and identification of "Chaos Kids" caused me to have hope that his program could help me/us. Larry is the only person I have come across who gets it!! I am beyond excited!!"

- Debra P.

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  • He's in a midlife crisis

    If your husband no longer resembles the man you married, it’s likely he is in a midlife crisis. The good news? A midlife crisis is NOT the end of your marriage.

  • He is involved with another woman

    If your husband is having an affair, you CAN win his heart back again by “becoming the girlfriend” again. Click the button below to learn how.

  • He has already filed for divorce

    The legal agreement of divorce does not mean you can’t rebuild the trust and win your husband’s heart back. You can win his heart back IF you avoid making the same mistakes…

  • He says he doesn’t love you anymore

    Your husband says cruel, hurtful things as an attempt to push you away and ultimately get relief from the pressure he is feeling. Despite what most people think, this is NOT a deal breaker!

Success Stories

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"...Alice's husband is now sleeping in the same bedroom and wearing his wedding ring again."

Alice's husband was sleeping in the other bedroom for close to a year, he was having an affair and he hadn't worn his wedding ring in over a year. Alice went through many different marriage resources, but nothing worked.

Once she started the EC program, she felt a wave of relief that helped her feel better and understand her situation in a whole new light.

Today, Alice's husband is sharing a bedroom with her again and wearing his wedding ring. She knows there's still work to do, but Alice is relieved her marriage is now headed in the right direction.

"...After a relatively short period of time, Alya turned her life around, her husband wants to be around her, and the divorce process has stopped."

Alya suddenly found herself in a place in life where her husband turned into someone she didn't know. Her husband was angry and wanted a divorce. They attended marriage counseling, but Alya found it wasn't helpful.

Alya was beyond devastated and developed tremendous anxiety and she was, in her own words "a mess".

After following the Environment Changer program for a relatively short period of time, she turned her life around and as she puts it, "her life is better than it has ever been".

Alya's husband is now calling and texting her, they are going out on dates, and he wants to spend time with her. Although they are living apart, and she still has work to do, they are acting as if they are married again and the divorce process has now stopped.

"Since enrolling in the EC program, Anne-Kirsten is calmer, her life is rich with possibilities, her husband softened and is slowly coming back.

Anne-Kristen joined the EC program after her husband left the house during a midlife crisis. She sought out other marriage help, but her situation got worse and worse. She realized her husband was moving further away and as soon as she joined, her eyes were opened to a whole new world.

She gained the confidence to become the "real her", trust her intuition and let go of old behavior.

Before joining the Environment Changer program, she was government by fear and lack of control. Since enrolling, she is much calmer and her life is rich with possibilities and her husband softened and is slowly coming back to her. Anne-Kirsten feels she is finally herself, as she was meant to be.

"Hi Larry, this program truly is incredible.  I have completed 7 of the modules and I am working through different resources in module 8 now.  I have attended all the calls so far.  I am finding the Whatsapp groups extremely helpful and a few women have been incredibly encouraging on the side.  I am having success with my daily and weekly report cards and the % are all increasing every week.

I can definitely feel a shift occurring in myself and in my world.  Work seems ‘easier’ and I have had a couple of trials of ‘trouble’ that allowed me to practice my EC skills with ease.  Despite things shifting along with the attorneys, I have had 3 very surprising texts from my husband.  One text he was laughing at a misfortune I got into and said ‘trust you to have something like that happen’ with a laughing face.  Another text he sent was appreciation for sending his belongings in the mail.  And the third text was the most surprising- he called me by my nickname that he used to call me when we were dating.

 It is such an experience and such a spiritual awakening- something I have been searching for my whole life.  I am really focusing on my faith and trust.  I am manifesting small things in my world every day.

I am blown away by the divine power that I have within me that I kept buried away until now.  This program is a blessing and I cannot thank you enough for the gifts you have given me. Thank you!"

- Ainsley Smith

"Larry, I am serious about the role that you play in the success I experienced. This Environment Changer course is the best money I have ever spent when I invested in me and our family by joining. In fact I believe compared to the many emotionally powerful rewards I’ve received from this course, it was really cheap.

I am an EC success story. I contacted you after signing divorce papers at my husband's request on Dec 7. I had them notarized and ready to go that day because my spirit (I believe under the unction of the Holy Spirit, told me to do so, not to fight it).

As I started your program a couple weeks later, those papers lay on the buffet and then on my dresser, even after I told him they were ready. I noticed in early February that they were gone. I let go of all expectations. I truly wanted what my husband wanted. It was all out of love, not my agenda but what would make him comfortable and happy. And sonofabitch, it turned out, as I suspected and prayed all along, he wants and needs me. 🙂

So a couple of weeks ago I received a letter from the District Clerk. It stated that "This cause of action (divorce action, husband vs me) be dismissed for want of prosecution."

My sincerest gratitude.

- Susie D., Texas

Win Your Husband's Heart Back, Even if You’ve Tried Everything and Nothing Has Worked

Apply for a private 1-hour marriage strategy session to see if Larry Bilotta's approach is a good fit for you and ask any urgent questions you have right now.

If your husband is overwhelmed by a midlife crisis, you’re not dealing with a “normal” man anymore.

Traditional marriage counseling won’t work. Books won’t work; even positive behavior-based courses won’t work. If you ask your husband to work on the marriage with you…you’ll likely receive a resounding “NO!”

Over the past 36 years, I’ve been developing a way to help women in your situation change the tense and negative environment between them and the person they thought they knew…the person who has seemingly become a different person overnight.

My system will give you a way to…

  • Learn to attract your husband like no one else can
  • Turn yourself into the most desirable woman in your husband’s eyes
  • Get rid of the bad feelings between you and your husband

The idea is simple – change your environment, change your marriage.

Marriage counseling, books, seminars, courses, pastors – he just won’t listen and to make matters worse, you don’t know why!

“Once size fits all” marriage programs won’t cut it in a situation like yours.

My Environment Changer system is entirely different – but it doesn’t work for everyone.

This system is for you if:

  • You want to avoid making the same mistakes in the future
  • You want to wipe out the old obstacles and connect to your husband again physically and emotionally
  • You are ready to become the woman your husband was first attracted to
  • You want to break the chain of family chaos and protect your kids from a life of it

This system is NOT for you if:

  • You refuse to move past the anger and resentment over past issues
  • You insist you are right and he is wrong
  • You have “one foot out the door” and have nearly given up
  • You are unwilling to apply unconventional techniques and methods you’ve never heard before
  • You do not believe you can transform your marriage without your husband’s participation
  • You are not ready to do something right now

This won’t happen overnight. It doesn’t matter if your husband files for divorce tomorrow or 1 year from now. You can always get another marriage, another legal document…but you can’t get another man just like your husband.

It’s up to you to create a new relationship out of the ashes of the old one.

But this approach isn't a good fit for everyone.

Most people will tell you “he’s too far gone” or “just let him go and move on with your life”. But if you’re someone who can’t see yourself with any other man and you have the patience, persistence and motivation to win your husband back, click the button below to apply for a private 1 hour call to see if this approach is right for you. If your application is accepted, I'll be speaking to you soon.

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